I think that this tool can help a lot in helping us changing prospective.
How many time do we find ourself in a place where we think that someone else is responsible for the situation ? Think about the last time this happened to you.
– You lost your job
– You were late at your meeting
– You missed a deadline, the project you are working on with a team is not going the way you want.
– Your house is upside down …
In that kind of situation we can always look for someone to accuse but, how is this serving us ? What are we trying to achieve ?
The other way to look at it is to look at where we are responsible for the situation. And there is ALWAYS a part of our responsability in every situation. By being responsible for our life we create a huge field of possibilities. It opens up to so much more than any kind of accusation or victim thoughts.