The power of Validation !

//The power of Validation !

This is a big part of my upcoming book. Celebrating others, Celebrating the self.
I have noticed that the more precise you are in your acknowledgment, the most powerful it is.

Since I moved to the US in 2000 and became a mom I have been really impressed by the amount of ” Good Job” ” You are great” I have heard.
I want to invite all of you to go beyond this and one step further, the extra result will be tremendous.
Instead of saying ” Good Job”, you can say for example” The way you’ve handled this project was really professional, especially when we’ve got in trouble regarding (….), you came in and use your specific talent ( writing, convincing, being consistent… You name it !!). Thank you, your contribution really made a difference and was deeply appreciated.

Do you see the difference ????

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